I had to write this to the girl not wearing her comfortable dress

*I had to write this to the girl not wearing her comfortable dress today fixing her self in that expensive outfit feeling uncomfortable in that whole lot of Make up, and to the boy who wanted to go to arts but now is struggling in an engineering college, and to the mum forcefully asking her daughter to fake smiles and to the dad who shifted his family to an upper class residential area where he knows no one Lekin logo ko nazar aana chahiye k hum high class hai is zyada important; and to whoever it may concern.*

“THE CONSTANT PRESSURE TO PLEASE PEOPLE.”

What happens when you carry a heavy load over your back?

You bend down. Right?

Similarly when you carry the burden of a constant urge to please people, when you are carrying the luggage of their opinions, and approvals; you bend down. Your self respect gets shattered and you bow down to the need of constantly making people satisfied from you.

And the noticed yet pretended to be un-noticed fact is: THEY NEVER GET SATISFIED.

You could go to the moon for them and they’ll still have the audacity to say that I never asked you tho!

We crave for appreciations and approvals, but for how long? You do a 100 good things to win that badge and then one day you fail to satisfy them and boom all your good gets wiped out.

Now the more funnier fact is, the people you are constantly trying to prove yourself and show-off are mostly those who hold the least important place in your life, you don’t really like them, yet you keep on carrying the burden to seek their attention and approval.

Now coming to the point straight,

REMOVE THIS SAC OF BURDEN FROM YOUR SHOULDERS. I WANT YOU TO STAND STRAIGHT. AND SAY ACCEPT ME THE WAY I AM, OR GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR OPINIONS.

I read in a book I am currently reading, their would always be people who would appreciate you for who you are and their would also always be a whole allot more of people who would laugh at you!

And that’s okay.

You can’t satisfy everyone and you certainly don’t need to.

The last thing the world wants is another robotic indifferent soul.

And then opinions are dynamic, they keep changing. Do not get stuck to them.

All that matters is, YOU SHOULD BE SATISFIED FROM YOURSELF.

Ps: their would always be some people you find at some stage of life that would love you the way you are. And make you feel really special. That’s your tribe. Hold them. And even if you haven’t found them, you are your own superhero, love yourself. But more than that accept yourself so that you don’t have to run behind meaningless acceptances.💛