Loving someone is easy but do you know what is difficult

Loving someone is easy but do you know what is difficult; maintaining that same love forever. When we love someone we set some parameters like parameter of care, parameter of attention,parameter of loyalty,parameter of time and many more. Then we start expecting from our partner to fulfill all these parameters and make a stable balance among them.But while setting such parameters we forget that it's beyond human reach to fulfill all the expectations at a time. Have we ever tried to love someone without keeping any conditions.Have we ever tried to love someone for the sake of love only. Woefully we didn't do this, we always want something in return of our love. I agree that it's human tendency to expect same kind of effort from the other person too but loving someone without keeping any conditions or expectations is a purest form of love. Loving someone is not as easy as it is shown in the movies and dramas. Love requires a lot of forgiveness and endurance. It's not necessary that the efforts you're putting in someone come backs to you in the same amount. It requires a lot of audacity to accept this fact but this is the very reality of love. Therefore, when you love someone, love them wholeheartedly because it's only love which can transform a human, his nature and his personality towards you. Don't be in a hurry, stay calm and consistent because love is something which take decades in completion.Love is a slow process. It contains pain more than pleasure. But believe me that pain has its own pleasure.Perhaps you may go through many hardships or difficult phases. Perhaps you may get tired and it's seems that you don't have adequate courage to continue this journey. But always remember beautiful destinations comes with difficult paths. If someone/something is meant for you it will come to you no matter how difficult the path is. Many relationship ends because instead of giving time and space to each other, people start judging on the basis of few mistakes and bad experiences. It's not always the toxicity of other person which ruins the relationship but sometimes it's our inner toxicity which provoke us to come to an ultimate decision. It's reality that we all contain some sort of toxicity which somehow forces us to take such decisions which prove ourself right and the other person wrong whether that decision may prove wrong later. Therefore don't let your inner toxic traits turn your love for someone into obsession. An obsession of proving yourself right. Don't let your ego or your expectation parameters come between you and your partner. Perhaps your ego win but you lose a beautiful bond. Love is a kind of feeling which can't be express in words. Not everyone is lucky enough to find actual vibe of love. It's beautiful to be loved by someone but it's beyond beauty to love someone with deep passion and intensity.