Dark Confessions-

”You are the reason of all our troubles,We are the unfortunate people on the earth to have a daughter like you’; It was better if I had no one rather to have a sister like you’’.

” you are good for nothing , you don’t know the real meaning of friendship; you have always been a useless friend “

” you disappointed us”

These lines get stuck in your head and you are like pretending that you don’t care. That’s what most of the people do everyday. there are two kind of people one who  can express their feelings and can cry loudly and other like me which love to pretend that they are happy always willing to carry themselves with a smile 🙂 but cries alot when left alone 😥 they know how to shine perfectly in front of everyone that’s what makes them glamorous LOL. 

But today i want to tell u that people who are expressive tends to be more happy in future and can overcome depression easily.

let me discuss about what is depression,

‘TIRED’’

”TIRED OF HOPING”

”TIRED OF COPING”

”TIRED OF LIVING”

”TIRED OF TRYING”

”I AM DONE”

Depression is an intense expression of sadness, hopelessness and loneliness. The reliable studies all around the world give a high spot that teen girls are more easy prey of depression than boys. Depression is not a mood swing, it is a mood disorder. Generally, parents ignore the cranky and peculiar behavior of their daughters and that’s why most of them go unmedicated. But the main question is – Why do they undergo such depression?

CAUSES OF DEPRESSION:-

• HORMONAL CAUSE : Biological or hormonal imbalances are one of the reasons that actuates depression. They play a main role in regulating the mood and behaviour of an individual.

• CHILDHOOD TRAUMA : Disgusting or traumatic events during childhood such as physical or mental abuse cause wounds that never heal. They create a lasting effect on girl’s brain.

• LOSS OF THE LOVED ONES : Loss of a parent or a dearly loved person affects the working of an individual and eventually they fall in the trap of depression.

• PESSIMISM : They are not able to cope up with circumstances. Little failures in their lives make them feel dejected. They think they will never be able to make it. They loose confidence and become hopeless.

• FAMILY CONFLICTS : Not everyone in this world is born in an ideal family. It is an adage that when the gardeners are good, the flowers bloom. A child will learn what you will show to them. Parents blame each other for their failures in life. They are themselves consumed in fighting with each other that they fail to provide love to their daughters.

• NO FREEDOM : Girls are never given any chance to assert their independence. It makes them feel alienated and dejected leading to depression.

• HEARTY BREAK UPS : When girls don’t get love at home, they try to find love in this world of imperfections. They try to find happiness in their friends and when they don’t get the love they want, all they are left with is Despair.

CONSEQUENCES RESULTING TO DEPRESSION-

•  SELF-MUTILATION
•  SUICIDAL THOUGHTS
•   LOSS OF CONFIDENCE
•   INSOMNIA
•   IRRITABILITY OR ANGER
•   LOSS OF INTEREST IN ACTIVITIES
•   CHANGE IN APPETITE

TREATMENT-

The only solution of depression is to smile, to accept the way life is and to make the best out of it. No one in this world comes to your rescue when you need them the most. It is you who have to save yourself. If you don’t trust yourself, how can you expect others to trust you. Being rebellious or gloomy won’t bring out any solution. You just have to wait for the perfect time to fight back. You should stand upright no matter how badly the world knocks you down. Love yourself and listen to your heart. Your churning heart is still beating. Get back in the lost beats. BE BOLD, BE RAVISHING, BE FEARLESS.

Being expressive is also a solution most of the time it’s others because of them we engage with depression for dealing with this type of depression we should just express our feelings and let it go. well human has a really valuable source of  communication which is language, but we don’t use it in the right way basically my point is being expressive to other will not help that much it will just heal your sorrow for some time but expressing your feelings to the right person, the one who is the reason of your depression will always help . it will result in a good way maybe their reaction gives you the answer to all your questions or maybe it will end your depression forever-

I read this text on the internet  that said, “Do caterpillars know that they’re gonna be butterflies or do they just build the cocoon and be like wtf am i doing???”

I love that idea. I mean, it’s cliche to mention butterflies when I’m talking about change, but really, do you ever think about what caterpillars think?

Let’s hope for the best 🙂

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