You never talk about your regrets, do you have any?

Friend: “You never talk about your regrets, do you have any?”

Me: I guess, but I don’t like to call them regrets, I’d rather call them Wondering..”

Friend: “Wondering??”

Me: “Because I always wonder what would have happened if things played out differently. But to name my past decisions ‘mistakes’ or ‘regrets’ is somehow hard. If I chose something, it was the right choice at the time. We never purposely make mistakes, we only call them that in hindsight......."