اچھی اُميد اور اچھا گُمان ‏ايسى چهاؤں ہے

!!اچھی اُميد اور اچھا گُمان ‏ايسى چهاؤں ہے

جو اپنے دامن ميں انسان كو پناہ دے كر ‏مايوسى كے سمندر ميں ‏ڈوبنے سے بچاتے ہیں ‏ الله تعالی سے دعا ہے کہ ‏وہ ہم سب کو

ہمیشہ ‏ پرسکون خوشیوں سے بھری ‏خوبصورت زندگی عطاء فرمائے

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🌾🌱🍃

‏آمین 🌾

اس سیارے پر کئی ملین لوگ بستے ہیں

اس سیارے پر کئی ملین لوگ بستے ہیں وہ سب آپکی فوٹو کاپی نہیں ہیں

ان کا مختلف ہونا قبول کیجیے

...!!! :)

مختصر سنو گے

مختصر سنو گے!؟

خلوص منہ پر مارے جاتے ہیں

...!!! :)

فقط پھولوں کے بکھرنے تک ہے تماشہ انکا

فقط پھولوں کے بکھرنے تک ہے تماشہ انکا

میں تتلیوں کی محبت کو خوب جانتا ہوں

خود اپنے لیے بیٹھ کے سوچیں گے کسی دن

خود اپنے لیے بیٹھ کے سوچیں گے کسی دن

یوں کہ تجھے بھول کے دیکھیں گے کسی دن

بھٹکے ہوئے پھرتے ہیں کئی لفظ جو دل میں

دنیا نے دیا وقت تو لکھیں گے کسی دن

ہل جائیں گے اک بار تو عرش کے در و بام

یہ خاک نشین لوگ جو بولیں گے کسی دن

آپس کی کسی بات کا ملتا ہی نہیں وقت

ہر بار یہ کہتے ہیں "بتائیں گے کسی دن"

اے جان! تیری یاد کے بے نام پرندے

شاخوں پہ میرے درد کی اتریں گے کسی دن

جاتی ہے کسی جھیل کی گہرائی کہاں تک

آنکھوں میں تیری ڈوب کے دیکھیں گے کسی دن

خوشبو سے بھری شام میں جگنو کے قلم سے

اک نظم تیرے واسطے لکھیں گے کسی دن

امجد ہے یہی اب کہ کفن باندھ کہ سر پر

اس شہرِ ستم گر میں جائیں گے کسی دن

(امجد اسلام امجد)​

🧸What does positivity means?

🧸What does positivity means?

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🧸Losing all your negative thoughts? Or losing your complete mind set because what we think is not in our control.

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🧸We humans, think and think alot despite of the fact that we are on the verge of selfishness.

We are in the race of getting better and better losing what is already better than anything else. We fight with ourselves because we are in such a hurry we want things to just happen right now despite not thinking that things take time, goals take time, dreams take time infact everything take time. But do we think this? No. Because we feel this as a postive thought in our negative minds.

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🧸We feel this as a reason not to fight with ourselves, not to hurt ourselves or people. Postive vibes comes within yourself, it comes with peace of mind and you are your only peace.

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🧸Nobody can fix you and repeat after me

" You are not responsible for fixing other people"

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🧸Give yourself a break, give yourself some time. Think what you are fighting for? A person? Who didnt asked you to do this. A dream?

Which if it is meant to be it will happen. A friend? Who left you as a option or what else more you are destroying yourself for?

Go easy. Breathe. This is life.

Dont take it too fast, to ending up that things don’t go too well. Enjoy because YOLO⭐

ITS OKAY.

ITS OKAY.

Its okay to feel loneliness when no one is there to listen. Its okay to shout your heart out when everyone feels concerned. Its okay to push everything in. Its okay to let that anger out. Its okay if people can never understand your deepest truths. Its okay if you even tried telling them. Its okay of they help you heal. Its okay if they make it worse. Its okay if you were wise , Its okay if you weren't. Its okay to hate yourself for everything. Its okay to be naive and hate others for everything. It okay to isolate yourself. Its okay to put yourself out there. Its okay to be judged. It okay to be accepted. Its okay to you never got what you wished for. Its okay to dream big in the face of it all. Its okay to fall down. Its okay to get back up.

Its okay to be a human.

Last night i was wandering in the market,

Last night i was wandering in the market,

There I met a little boy

He was cute and very soft spoken

He was looking at the chips i had in my hand..

Although i was quite hungry, but i just gave away that packet to him..

He smiled and went away..

I dont know why i felt such pleasure, such unexplainable inner satisfaction... I just can explain in words..

Then i realized something..

Allah has bestowed us with countless blessing..

Just a few coins may be nothing for us, but they could bring that smile on someones face, that priceless smile..

Who knows what takes you closer to your Creator, Allah Almighty..

Spread smiles among his men and Allah will bring smiles to your face ...

You wont be complaining about peace of mind in your life ever . .. ... <3

I want to be your butterfly

I want to be your butterfly

You be my rose,

From dawn to dusk I'll fly around you,

And shower on you many rounds of applause.

I'll bring you the joys of sunrise,

The radiance of sunshine,

I'll neatly wrap you within my colors,

Kiss you a hundred times.

We'll sway together in the tender breeze

And unfurl the mystery of this universe,

We'll gaze upon the mountains with rapture,

Let the valley swell in nature's abundance.

I want to be your butterfly,

And you be my rose,

We'll talk all day long,

I'll hold you close.

Your tears are mine,

I'll wipe it off with my smile,

Allow me to breathe you as much as I can in my heart,

When I'm gone you keep me in your remembrance.

You call me a WRITER because you think

You call me a WRITER because you think I have the perfect and most suitable words to describe a situation but have you ever given a thought to what it needs to become one?

Let me tell you. Writing is something that, at one end causes you pain, depression and sometimes heartbreak and on the other it is the reason of your peace of mind and comfort. Yes, it truly is. What I bring you, is not a result of some magic pen through which all the appropriate and easily understandable words jiggle out. It pains when I cross out pages over pages of my note pad when I don't produce a satisfactory situation. It pains when I keep thinking of the perfect adjectives to describe my character or the situation for hours and still end up in nothing. It pains when I keep crushing pages, one after the other unable to pen down my feelings.

Indeed, it is a cause of depression when I am overflowing with the words I do not have. It makes me sick when my mind has overabundance of ideas and issues but still I am unable to produce a word of it. It causes abjectness when I keep staring at my note book, chewing the end of my pen and lack to express my thoughts. It is a cause of despair when I am unable to come up with something new for my readers.

Doubtlessly it causes a heartbreak when I put myself at the place of every character of my story to express what things feel like to them, to accurately give life to my characters, to make my readers feel the situation, to describe all that pain or happiness into a few words. Sometimes it is just impossible to depict the true emotions but I still go on unless I am satisfied what I came up with.

No doubt of it, that it is the reason of my comfort and peace of mind whenever I am able to bring you some stuff and the cause of my sleepless nights whenever I fail to.

The writer sees the world with a complete different view. He examines the events with a whole different perspective. He sees with the inner eye (not the ordinary one).

I write until my fingers are numb, my mind satisfied and my heart bleeds and trust me, it takes a whole lot of me to bring you something worthy. .. ...

Sometimes I want to be left alone.

Sometimes I want to be left alone.

Sometimes I want to be included.

Most of the time I want to be included with the option to be left alone....

I don't know who you are but yet I love who you were

I don't know who you are but yet I love who you were ...

I love to see the change in weather but don't want to see the change in behave...

I know how to walk alone with every storms , my mother told I walked straight in the 8th month of my birth...

I'm not challenging the phases even don't afraid from the false praises...

I know you don't like who I'm , but who I'm I like in me most....

I'll never say you damn care & ll never say time ll change the scene....

I'm there everywhere , where you breath with don't care....

Listen , my deaf , blind & dump soul ...

How I said listen just try to feel , my feeling less....

Promises, I didn't made but what I made always exist . .. ....

Silence is just an excuse but soul of mine noisy ... .. .

The truth is, no matter how hard you try

The truth is, no matter how hard you try, there are going to be days that leave you feeling absolutely rubbish. You will feel lost, worthless, sad, down, powerless and even tired of living. There will be times when all you want to do is hide from the world and run away from all the responsibilities, all the tasks you have yet to complete. Once in a while you will question why you were even born. Yes, days like these will happen, no matter how much you try to fill your life with positivity and good things. Life is not always going to be sunshine and pretty flowers, smiles and a heart full of love. And that is truly okay, for that is only human. You will be alright again. Until then, please be gentle with yourself. Stop being so damn hard on yourself and take all the time you need to mend your heart.

Not everything works out the first time.

Not everything works out the first time. That’s okay. Growth means attempting new challenges, many of which we will fall short of. We can see it as failing, or we can see it as practice. We can retreat into ourselves, or we can take what we’ve learned and move forward. Failure or practice. It all comes down to how you look at things. Your mindset is your destiny. It’s all up to you.

You’re going to have moments

You’re going to have moments where you break down over things you thought you had moved past. This doesn’t mean you’re not progressing in your healing. If anything, these moments of feeling, which you might have previously blocked or avoided, are proof that you are progressing through this.

The soul is tired,eyes are blocked,

The soul is tired,eyes are blocked,ears are ceased,legs are broken,the entire body is choked up,heart is sinking but still it is pounding, may be there's a hope out ov all bleakness but WHY?

U could get it urself,from urself,for urself!

U may wonder bleakly with eyes of a dark universe wherein the hope is inside a dark room like a jet black dot in a fully blackish corner full o' blackness! Again the question is WHY?

Ur soul urges u to find that answer coz u're wondering. Sometime at someplace u get that damn HOPE. U ponder every time either u nod off or u're sleeping with ur eyes OPEN! U're dead intrinsically or extrinsically although u get that crap, I'm sure enough u got that CRAP! Isn't u? For sure am talkin' about HOPE (u might laugh!). Ultimately,u got it but after frequent wander with apparent dead. Again there's a question from where u got it? From WHOM u got it?

He's HIM! The absolute HIM! Who fills u with great white hope and certainty to bright ur soul to glow fully!

Man up being!I'm here with you in u!Keep that faith in!🌼

^^If ur hope is in ALLAH then it's not a crap even so it's a thing with feathers!➿

- What’s the most thing you’re afraid of?

- What’s the most thing you’re afraid of?

Being forgotten.

- Can you explain how?

It’s like you turn off your phone for a week,

And when you open it,

You find zero messages and zero calls.

It’s when you’re in an outing with some people who are considered your friends,

Yet if you just leave, no one will notice.

No one notices your disappearance.

No one cares about where you are or what you’re doing.

You’re not important.

You’re the last choice.

They forget to tell you everything.

There are people who have been forgotten for a long time.

I pray for you all to have only someone who always remembers you.

Among other things,

“Among other things, you'll find that you're not the first person who was ever confused and frightened and even sickened by human behavior. You're by no means alone on that score, you'll be excited and stimulated to know. Many, many men have been just as troubled morally and spiritually as you are right now. Happily, some of them kept records of their troubles. You'll learn from them—if you want to. Just as someday, if you have something to offer, someone will learn something from you. It's a beautiful reciprocal arrangement. And it isn't education. It's history. It's poetry.”

Emotions an abstract reality of self :

Emotions an abstract reality of self :

Emotion is but manifestation of true personality .. Emotions evolution is based on feelings .. feelings compete with each other ( like virtue competing against vice , hope vs despair ) within to give us a certain emotion ..

These feelings subtly and gradually influences the thought process in a way that nourishes evil or virtue depending on what one is feeding ones spirit with .. in other words , these insignificant innate feelings paves way for the personality ..

This competition between negative and positive feelings is conscious in the first phase , and becomes unconscious automatic responses with passage of time .. the good innate disposition succumbs to vice if one feeds on vile .. The gauge to know from which feeling one is influenced how much is then emotion .. for example : if one feels guilty for cheating while other rejoice in doing so , shows how the emotion one feels tells about his/her personality .. Thus , emotions highlight the abstract reality of self , signifying where one stands by emotions one experience in presence of certain stimuli ..

I do want to isolate myself from the world for a while

I do want to isolate myself from the world for a while , but i don't want to hide myself in the room and be cornered with my fears , i do want to walk in a crowd full of actual strangers and just observe and not judge them , and by actual strangers i mean people who've ive never met and not those who catted their ties with me or i did with them , i want simplicity in the solitude not complexity in a society , i want to see what everyone sees without any kind of comparison not where you relate and debate.

I want to sit alone with a camp fire at least that will keep me warm if not a person , and i want to travel across distances not people's lives for once.

I want to live as who i am and not as how people expect me to.

I do want to live as "me" for once.

"Who are you?"

You wrote something in exam, read it again, felt like it was perfectly fine and came back home. The next day when you read the same answer, you saw a bunch of silly mistakes and wondered what was wrong with you? Sounds familiar?

That's how your mind plays with you. It tricks you into reading something which is in your mind, not what you write. It tricks you into seeing something which wasn't in your answer, but in your thoughts.

Now analyze your character, what do you see? An imperfect person yet ' somehow better than most of the people '? That again is your mind. Its tricking you into seeing some imaginary character which is in your mind, not you. A character which is righteous, ethical and spiritually above average humans, and a character which is ' at least better from heart ' .

The point is that our mind plays with us in such a subtle way that even we don't realize how evil, cocky, and sometimes toxic we are just because we ' don't have it in our heart ' . Believe me nobody is evil from the inside, nobody wants to be toxic, judge or mean.

So who is your true self? The imaginary character which lives in your soul or the one which is being portrayed by your actions, words and personality? Obviously the second one. Nobody else knows the inner self of yours, and there's no point in knowing that until it's being reflected by your outer character. So next time don't try to convince yourself by saying that ' at least I don't have anything in my heart ' because nobody does. The reason why someone is toxic is because they show it, not because they have it in their hearts. Next time analyze yourself according to what your outer personality is. You are what you show, not what you think you are.

Keep that in your prayers, always!

One of my biggest fears is getting attached to something that is not destined to be mine.

A job, a person, a place, or a dream..

اللهم لا تعلق قلبي بما ليس لي

Keep that in your prayers, always!

Kahkashan Khan Blog

From so many days

I have started to write again

From so many days

I'm not feeling sleepy and lazy all day

I'm more focused, I'm more concerned,I m loving myself

More than before,more than ever

Maybe it's due to little changes

Changes that no one notices but you

Maybe I m drowning in my own thoughts

Maybe I don't care about others nowadays

Maybe I m not comparing my self anymore

Having so many untold talks,stories & tales in my mind from so much time

Maybe now I m wishing to share it with my self

Yesterday I read in an article that happiness is decreasing every year and will end

But I will not be in that number I guess

I will be living happily, & fuckng sorrow&pain

After watching so many seasons &listening so many lectures of teachers everyday

They all saying, they all are indicating

Love your self before loving anyone

Value your self before valuing anyone

Be happy yourself before sharing happiness

And always seek for something new

Something super duper exciting and all you

Need do

Is

Love

Your

Self 💕

"STEP OUT OF THE FAKE WORLD!"

"STEP OUT OF THE FAKE WORLD!"

It's okay to be flawed, it's okay to be less privileged, it's okay to be poor, it's okay to be 'not so pretty' , it's okay to be fat, it's okay to be dark, it's okay to be short heightened, it's okay to be underweight, it's okay to be jobless, it's okay to be the one with a 2 GPA, it's okay to be living a NOT SO PERFECT LIFE!

It really is.

We've all made perfection a standard to survive in our society. Therefore, all we do in life is just chasing these unreal standards and die!

Whereas, actual life is far more meaningful and purposeful than that.

Just when we get this!

Think about it.

The world with you seems calmer

The world with you seems calmer, as if there is nothing to worry about. Your laughter is like oxygen that spreads in the air, inhaled in lungs giving them life, giving them the necessity of life. Your hugs pluck the thorns out of another, and you let them hurt you but oh aren't you such a beautiful soul to care and love others more and to be there when they fall apart. Through your soul people seek for positivity and love as it flows in your blood and makes you this amazing human being who is strong, beautiful and undefeated. You have fire in your eyes, the determination never ends, the fight to reach the height never ends. Your heart is a flower, so beautiful but easily damaged, you are so lost in giving out to everyone that you permit everyone to hold your heart, and when they mistreat it, it hurts you, but you manage to fixate it back where it belongs, you let the light enter the holes of your heart, filling it and then you continue. Then you continue to reach out to the world, to give it more than you have ever received, to love it more than any love you have ever felt, to care for it more and be gentle with it no matter how much the world drives over you. Because my love, you are the best person alive, you make the earth worth living on, you make smiles more brighter, lives more beautiful. Oh love, the world without you would have been a chaotic place, thank you for being the calm waves of the ocean and teaching me such beautiful things

I had to write this to the girl not wearing her comfortable dress

*I had to write this to the girl not wearing her comfortable dress today fixing her self in that expensive outfit feeling uncomfortable in that whole lot of Make up, and to the boy who wanted to go to arts but now is struggling in an engineering college, and to the mum forcefully asking her daughter to fake smiles and to the dad who shifted his family to an upper class residential area where he knows no one Lekin logo ko nazar aana chahiye k hum high class hai is zyada important; and to whoever it may concern.*

“THE CONSTANT PRESSURE TO PLEASE PEOPLE.”

What happens when you carry a heavy load over your back?

You bend down. Right?

Similarly when you carry the burden of a constant urge to please people, when you are carrying the luggage of their opinions, and approvals; you bend down. Your self respect gets shattered and you bow down to the need of constantly making people satisfied from you.

And the noticed yet pretended to be un-noticed fact is: THEY NEVER GET SATISFIED.

You could go to the moon for them and they’ll still have the audacity to say that I never asked you tho!

We crave for appreciations and approvals, but for how long? You do a 100 good things to win that badge and then one day you fail to satisfy them and boom all your good gets wiped out.

Now the more funnier fact is, the people you are constantly trying to prove yourself and show-off are mostly those who hold the least important place in your life, you don’t really like them, yet you keep on carrying the burden to seek their attention and approval.

Now coming to the point straight,

REMOVE THIS SAC OF BURDEN FROM YOUR SHOULDERS. I WANT YOU TO STAND STRAIGHT. AND SAY ACCEPT ME THE WAY I AM, OR GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR OPINIONS.

I read in a book I am currently reading, their would always be people who would appreciate you for who you are and their would also always be a whole allot more of people who would laugh at you!

And that’s okay.

You can’t satisfy everyone and you certainly don’t need to.

The last thing the world wants is another robotic indifferent soul.

And then opinions are dynamic, they keep changing. Do not get stuck to them.

All that matters is, YOU SHOULD BE SATISFIED FROM YOURSELF.

Ps: their would always be some people you find at some stage of life that would love you the way you are. And make you feel really special. That’s your tribe. Hold them. And even if you haven’t found them, you are your own superhero, love yourself. But more than that accept yourself so that you don’t have to run behind meaningless acceptances.💛

My mother has always told me

My mother has always told me

"if someone has hurt you,

forgive them.

if they hurt you again,

forgive yourself."

you miss a lot of things

you miss a lot of things

but you’re not so sure

if

they miss you

just the same

where do you go from here

when the arms

that held you

so tightly

on the happiest

and the worst

of nights

are now crossed

or

lying straight

on both sides

of a body that is

indifferent

to your longing

where do you go from here

So i was watching the growth of different plants

So i was watching the growth of different plants in my back yard and i could see them bloom and grow in different sizes in different times while apparently they have been together all along getting all the water soil and sun all together and maybe that is something that can clear us on our growth as youth

We all have different capacities,circumstances and privileges that makes us grow in different ways at different times. Sometimes we grow all up in a minute and sometimes it takes the whole lifetime and sometimes our growth is nothing as compared to our surroundings despite of everything we did

This is where we need to draw the line and notice the difference. We think growth is relative and sometimes when your growth doesn’t match the outside world you start feeling like you’re left behind.

We all grow just differently in our own ways and we shouldn’t measure anyone’s growth by our metrics. No one has it all ever and i believe that we all get it one way or another just differently.

To all the introverts out there....

To all the introverts out there....

If you don't like to socialize, it doesn't mean you will never have a life.Sitting in silence, on your fluffy sofa, reading a good book isn't that bad either.

You are a good listener. It's okay if you don't talk too much, but when you do you are so passionate about it

Do not think you can not be a good friend to someone just because you hate hangovers and clubs. Nowadays people need a genuine one who can listen to their pains and can understand their silence.

You may sometimes feel like no one loves you, but that's not the reality. There are people who adores you for the way you are and believe me, they will never turn their back on you

You get confused during long talks, hesitate while speaking in front of a huge crowd, but don't you know how good you are in expressing your feelings through your writings.

It's okay if you fear opening up to people, sometimes privacy is just too satisfying.

You like spending time with yourself, doing self talk, building peace with your innerself. Don't you think it's much more important than everything else. Remember, everyone is unique and different, and so are you

The Last Love..!!

He was 12 years old,when he wished to be an officer,whenever he saw an scrupulous and strict officer surrounded with people ,he also desired to be the same.Whenever he listened the stories of a brave and flightless officer in the language of oppressed people,he observed that living for people is life indeed.He decided to be a hero of public and public his strength.

That public which is considered ordinary.

That public which is considered powerless.

He knew that founder of Pakistan Quaid-e-Azam Muhammad Ali Jinnah was a lawyer by profession,he knew that man of Asia,Zulfiqar Ali Bhutto was a lawyer too but he came accidental in that profession and then made it faith.Two were the aims he set for,first to serve the people,second to provide justice as much as he could.

He started studying law and now he knew that advocacy is the only profession by which he could live in the hearts of people.He was an extraordinary student of his batch,lived most seriously.When he used to speak,silence started spreading it's wings in the class and his voice prceded like thunder,roaring with the walls.The words were his slave and he ruled over objections.He was a little emotional too,mostly argued lengthy on small things.At the age where boys get tremble through the gravity of environment,he was addicted to books madly and was a true lover of knowledge.Ever found in library or used to fall asleep with books while reading them.

The time flowed on it's way and he kept working eagerly,he tried to save himself from unnecessary wants,finally he became a lawyer.He used to argue so fastly in the court that sometimes it became difficult to catch his words.He made his opponents unanswered through his vast knowledge and attacking attitude of reasoning,he got so much fame at very short time.

It was the time when advocacy was considered like a trade and business of money but he changed the revailing thoughts by his sincerity towards his profession.He was tempted by money and offered for bribe but he refused with uttering these words'I am beloved of people and people are my strength,if you offer me whole of the world I can't compromise on the things which purely are for the benefit of people'.He fought thousand of cases in his life and became successful in defending them.Now he is old but still is the ideal of people and will remain forever!

" It doesn't mean to be a lawyer,practicing law is everything "

Dear Indian best friend

Fate played a cruel game to give me & you everything in life. All pieces of the puzzle that fit perfectly, except one. It made you an opposite to me yet exactly like me. We understand each other like no one does. It gave me this last piece, but it never fits.

It made you an extreme introvert, and me otherwise, always talking when you're so quiet.

It made you a Hindu, and me a Christian.

Life was beautifully cruel as it made you an Engineering student and me a doctor.

You are a technology geek, I, an old soul poet.

You keep travelling here and there & I never leave home.

You stay on your laptop and I am always lost between the pages of books.

It made you rational & logical,

and me a dreamer and believer of magic.

And lastly, to always remind us of our differences, it made you Indian.

And me a Pakistani.

Because yeah, if our personalities weren't a shocking contrast, our nationalities definitely are.

And to make it even more painful, it put you & I just across the border.

So you'll always be close and always be so far away.

Oh but you were always a rebel, and so was I.

And I guess life forgot one thing. That people that are meant to be in your life will always gravitate back to you.

If fate played a cruel game, we fired back with something even better. Because even after all the hate there is, even after all the hard times we had, we are still the best of friends. We turned the tragic game into something cruelly beautiful. And today, each year, it marks our win.

Because what they labelled as enemy ground,

the best ally is what there i found

what they called as common foes,

a friend for highs, a friend for lows

where they found hate, we found peace

where they rage war, we would cease

where the borders converge,

and the sun moon collide

where the mountains submerge,

and the sub-continents divide

here we are

two best friends

one from where the other world begins

the other from where this one ends

Here's to 4 years of undying friendship and counting.

Happy International Best Friend's Day.

Love,

Your Pakistani counter-part

This might be long and tedious to read

This might be long and tedious to read, but do give this your time. I've read this somewhere and sharing now.

Inspiring story!

I made my students get used to listen to Adhaan from their first grade, says one teacher.

Even when I am explaining in the class, I stop and I tell them to repeat after the Muadheen. Then I remind them that the du'aa between the Adhaan and the Iqama is answered.

I noticed one of my students always say the du'aa between the Adhaan and Iqama, and uses the opportunity more than her classmates. One time I was correcting her note book, I said to her: "I like you because when I give you a chance to say du'aa between the Adhaan and Iqama, I notice that you take advantage of the opportunity more than your classmates."

She said: "Alhamdulillah, Praise be to Allaah, the first time I knew that the du'aa between the Adhaan and the Iqama is answered, I was in the fifth grade. So I make sure that I say du'aa at that time, especially this particular du'aa."

I asked her: "What is the du'aa?"

She said: "My mother gave birth to me and she can no longer give birth. I am now 13 years old and I have no sister. I get jealous of my friends when they talk about their sisters and I hope to have a sister. I always say du'aa for Allah to Bless me with a sister. But my mother tells me to say du'aa for Allah to Bless her with a son, because she already have me as her daughter."

She said this in a very innocent way: "Therefore I say du'aa to Allah to Bless us with a boy for my mother, and a sister for my sake and another boy for my brother not to remain alone." I said Ameen and I gave her back her notebook. I forgot the story and the days passed by, and the girl reached grade 9.

One day I was walking and I met her. She said: "O teacher my mother, gave birth yesterday. She brought triplets, two sons and a daughter." I said: "Subhan Allaah."

I learnt a lesson from my student which I can't forget. Be optimistic and say your du'aa continuously, and have good thoughts of Allah the Almighty. Say your du'aa and it will be answered. Say du'aa and take advantage of the time when du'aas are answered. Say du'aa and trust that Allah the Almighty is Close to His servant.

Do you know the secret my beloved sisters and brothers? You can say du'aa if you want righteous children, or righteous husband or wife, or you want to be in good condition, health or wealth.

Whatever you need just say du'aa. Say du'aa to your Lord and you will be answered. Even if it will be a bit late to be answered but say du'aa.

Because you are asking a Generous Lord, nothing is impossible for Him in the world and in the sky.

Say Ya Rab, and say du'aa to your Muslim brothers and sisters, and all your loved ones at their absence, and the Angels will say: "Ameen, May it be for you too."

roller coaster ride

"Ohh what a roller coaster ride this life has turned out to be!

A very ambivalent box of emotions.. An undesirable package of tolerance!

and yes in between these two states, there lies a chance for those "who pretend" to be unaffected by any of the above . There has been a time when we were making sure to stand up from a wet prayer mat each and every time!, to have back all those things, we took for granted lately... and every minute of getting those things in the past was another untold story... But it's so strange, after a while we don't care about them even!

At the very same time, at the subconscious level, we so very unknowingly... heartily desire for all the things we outrageously rejected, but then again ... perhaps we are even going to take them for granted, a year on from now, if we really got them in our lives .

I have seen people who so eagerly want to win today's race of "having everything"!! ohh man stop!

Life will open up for you in strange ways. There might come a time when you don't have anything you've ever asked for... and on the other side of the plate, there are people who are happy in whatever little they have... and yes these are the ones who will surely taste the feeling of being gratified.

Having said that it is obvious to work for your limited desires. Do yourself a favour and make yourself brave enough to accept what Allah has written for you ! For me life is just another name of acceptance"

The biggest mistake we do is taking our heart

The biggest mistake we do is taking our heart, our feelings, our genuineness for granted. It is us who take them for granted and handover to people we deep inside know won't take care of it the way it deserves but it is us who keep telling ourselves it will be fine one day, we kept reminding ourselves they will take care, we kept deceiving ourselves although our intuitions signaled us many times but IT IS US WHO PLAYED A VITAL ROLE IN DESTROYING OURSELVES BY OUR OWN HANDS .

Always set defined limits for the people.And don't let them cross that at any cost

"Always set defined limits for the people.And don't let them cross that at any cost."

"What's the way to set limits?"

"See,people always use your weakness against you.Make sure you don't do the blunder of giving them all your secrets.

Because once you do, they're gonna invade your personal space and will ruin everything to the extent of irreplaceable loss.Ultimately,you'll be left with a shattered confidence and split personality.They'll cause you to doubt on your very own skills that you carried proudly before meeting them."

"What if we fall victim of a vulnerable moment and unveil our sacred scars to a wrong being?"

"Yeah,I got you.This happens in everyone's life at least for once.Therefore,take is as a blessing in disguise and turn the tables eventually.Transform those flaws into strength.Heal those wounds in a way that there's no mark left behind.And not because you're concerned of that person to be incapable of revealing your insecurities.But actually for your own.As,it will enable you to learn prioritizing yourself.And remember that the individuals who possess this power are invincible.So,work on yourself until you mold into one."

Being beautiful

Being beautiful is not just about look but about simplicity ,nature which you have

Being beautiful is not just about having fair face but about having charming and attractive smile which you have

Being beautiful is not just about wearing the branded clothes but about modesty along with these which you have

Being beautiful is not just about being a fashionable but about finding a happiness in small things which you have

Being beautiful is not just about having delightful but about doing something for other without any greed

Being a beautiful is not just about having attitude and swag but about having good heart

Being beautiful is not just about good look but about to be good

Being beautiful is not just about ideal self but about real self.

NOBLE THOUGHTS

NOBLE THOUGHTS

When you think good about others

no matter how bad they are

When you pray about people

who hurt you so much

When you don't want to hurt anyone

who hurt you so much

When you think positively about someone

who thinks so much negative about you

When you want good for others

no matter how bad they think about you

When you want others happiness

no matter how much thay want to see you unhappy

When you treat people in a best possible manner

no matter how ill mannered their behavior are

When you pray about the people

who done so many things against you

When you want to help people

who left you when you need their help

Then you have reached at the level of nobility

Then you have noble thoughts

Then you become the noble person

Actually then you become the precious person

Then you become the real human

about How others treat us

about

How others treat us

What others say to us

What others did to us

How much they love us

How much they hate us

We were on the wrong path of utmost dependance upon others for our very own happiness and living.

We never thought that our life only belong to us

That we are nothing to do with what others thinks

Or either they love us or not

We never thought of how we are treating ourselves

Thus we were self destroyer, dependent and utmost Prisoners for Life

When, You had a heartache

When,

You had a heartache, no one came to console but your Mother did.

When,

You had wounded soul, no one came to heal but your siblings did.

When,

You were bleeding inside, no one came to dress but your father did.

When,

You cried for hours and hours, no one came to wipe your tears, but your lil or elder brother did. Why?

Because you are not just a common girl, you may have your own stories of pain and grief but, There is a king ( A father),

A queen (A mother),

Supporters ( A sister and Brother)

in your stories.

You are not a common girl but a flower of the world (your family) 🙂

It bugs me how we keep on saying

It bugs me how we keep on saying, and go on preaching others about kindness and empathy without realizing the depth of these two words.

The last 2 years of my life were everything about understanding these two words. It took me whole lot of 2 years to finally get what kindness means, what empathy holds. And I began to notice all the unkind behaviours around me with a new vision. I remember the night I was with my nano in the hospital.. and that one night, in that ward, taught me everything about how humans are, and how humans should be. What kindness looks like. How important its very essence is . How it should be the very matter of being a human. I remember the nurses, and I all-too-well remember those patients. I have this incredibly bitter memory of the way the patients were being dealt by the staff. There was this one woman, looked 70+ to me. This poor lady was on dialysis. With full body paralysis, she couldn't speak. The old woman had a lone son, as it seemed to me, who wasn't allowed inside the ward as it was an all-female-ward obviously. So she, one helpless creature, was completely at the mercy of those nurses.

The nurses had to draw blood from her hand. One of them mercilessly held her hand while the old woman continued to scream at the top of her throat and the other one kept on laughing and saying "budhi ki cheekhen to suno". This behaviour left me confused. I couldn't understand the reason behind this disrespectful attitude and an act of unkindness,. as I, as a medico, know for a fact that they must've been taught kindness as their first lesson in medical school. I asked them as to what this behaviour was, onto which they replied "ap ko nahin pata y budhyan aise hi manti hn, nakhre hn bs"

It killed me there. Looking back at the memory, I think to myself, only if the old woman had been deaf so she wouldn't have had to hear the unkind words that were spoken to, and about her by the nurses.

I don't know what happened to that woman afterwards but still to this day, whenever that scene crosses my mind, I pray for her. If she's alive may God give her helping hands around her. If she's not, may she rest in peace.

I remember one time we were at Tariq Road. There was this handicapped man selling accessories and pens etc. The peculiarity was that he was crawling on his legs with the stand in one of his hands. On the road side, a car came and almost hit him. He was aged enough to not say anything. But then a young boy got out of the car and started shouting at the poor, hardworking man, even though it had been his own mistake. He was the one driving recklessly.

I remember seeing a woman, a few days back in the heaviest rainfall of Karachi. She struggled to get out of a rikshaw due to the rough weather. While doing so, she fell out of the vehicle. She had many stuff and packages with her. Some fell with her and some were still in the rikshaw. Instead of helping the lady, the rikshaw driver loudly yelled at her "aman saman jldi nikalo' der horhi hai".

I remember these all and I remember a lot more. They have taught me about kindness. How important it is. How it's impossible for us humans to be humans without having this trait in ourselves. Hospitals have taught me to be empathetic with ones in there. And life, with each passing day, is teaching me to be kind with everyone around me.

I pray this independence day, may we be able to learn the very essence of kindness. Because, well we need it. :)

Depression | My take on it

If you guys ask me to write a literal definition of the word I'll say I can't do that. Because I would say something and Google would that something else. You know! No conflicts but a pure heart to heart because cyber peace shalt prevail no matter what! So, yeah! We are all going through something in our lives but we don't talk it out. Why? Because we don't trust people. Or should I say we don't trust our very own selves?! I read on the internet that the cause of depression varies from person to person; it can be situational or biochemical. Therefore it requires different therapies. What I personally think is depression can control you and can throw you into darkness/ loneliness. Because if you don't be brave enough to talk it out/ vent you would be gathering a lot of pressure inside your brain, you know! And what happened to the classic? A container can only endure certain amount of pressure - then BRAIN? You know it can take a roll on your loved ones and in other cases; when you're constantly and regularly stressed out and do not communicate it effectively, you might lash onto others and draw your wrath onto them and you know the result! THEY'LL ALL BE GONE. ALL YOUR LOVED ONES. ONE BY ONE. I am not saying me or anyone who is reading it right now is facing this very problem, but let's assume we might come across such a situation in future? So, let's be proactive and read further.

REMEDIAL AND FUN ACTIVITIES TO CURE DEPRESSION | Said by one of my friends long ago

• Say prayers and meditate

• ME-TIME my friend. Get to know yourself. Read a book. Listen to podcasts. Learn to play a new game and whatnot? Google it. It always helps you out LOL

• This one is my favorite. I pen down my feelings. We all have notes on our smartphones, no? Write something everyday. It is the best activity to vent things out - at least for me

• Feel comfortable in your skin. You're too thin? That's okay. Are you too fat? Like I am? That's okay too. You don't have a car or a motorbike and you use public transport? Such as chinchee, W-11 etcetera like I do. That's okay too. Say you're driving a Mercedes Benz or Tesla X but you're not happy inside. Think!

• Workout. Give yourself 20 minutes a day. Walk. Stretch. Stop thinking about people. Burn those calories like a champ at home. Yayyy

• You're not a doctor, right? So stop buying medicines you think might relax or cure you. Consult a doctor. Don't Google it. It is going to be like: YOU'RE DYING IN 10 DAYS LOL

• Don't compare yourself with others.

Well, that'll be all from my side - if you feel like adding something to it. You're free to do so.