A girl

A girl has so much facial hair - It’s the damn hormones!

That person has got small height - Defined by his/her genes though!

Why that person is so skinny - Not by choice!

She/he is fat - Do you pay for their food?

She/he has a Dark complexion - Its High Melanin dude and that’s absolutely normal!

OMG, She has got no dressing sense - Who made you a judge BTW!

LOL, He is wearing joggers with shalwar - You are having a head without brain!

That blogger doesn’t write so well – At least she/he tries and that’s somehow better than judging people!

That poor kid shivered while performing on stage - May be that Kid is going to do wonders in Future which you could not!

Ew, that nose piercing doesn’t suit her at all - Her Body, her Rules!

He/She repeats clothes every now and then - They paid for it and they have a Washing Machine.

He/She laughs too much - Active facial muscles prevent aging, No?

That student has no interest in studies like I do - He has got a Hidden Talent you don’t have.

She looks unhealthy without makeup, she should do it - Well, she owns herself more than you.

He/She is not that much beautiful – Beauty is in the eyes of Beholder, I guess!

Oh, those dark circles! - She/he might be having sleep problems.

She/He has no sense how to carry a dress – Oh No, Society won’t accept her/him now!

She/He is not fluent in English- Oh those Manmade Artificial Standards!

If he/she can’t sing, he/she shouldn’t have come on stage - Well, that person is having a lot more confidence and guts than the people sitting in audience doing nothing but judging!

Why do people love to talk about the insecurities other people have? It’s not that people are not aware of their traits but they don’t feel like talking about it. This is not a gossip and definitely not interesting and it won’t make you cool. Make people Comfortable in the way they are. Make them own themselves. Make them realize their skin doesn’t define their beauty. You are no one to Judge. You’re not judging people, you are judging their Creator and this will get you nowhere. Neither in Dunya nor in Aakhirah. All these manmade standards- THEY ARE TRASH. Let People feel free to do anything and everything without having the fear of being judged. It kills their self-esteem and self-confidence. Being kind costs nothing. Let people live by not destroying their inner peace. Someone might be facing a silent battle you don’t know about. Feel their inner beauty. Feel their heart. Make them believe in the goodness of people. Be Kind. World needs it the most.