The thing I learned this year

The thing I learned this year is that sometimes your 💯 percent is not enough for your loved ones, no matter how much efforts are you doing, no matter how much of your time, love and attention you give them they would not appreciate it.

But at the same time I've made peace with the fact that it's not mandatory to get the same amount of love, respect and time from your loved ones. they may be a priority to you but you may not be on the top of their priority list, you may love to share everything with them but they may hesitate to tell you even little things and it's okay to tell them what happened to you, what you did the whole day it is your choice to tell them every single detail but they may not feel free to open up their heart infront of you. Somtimes it hurts, not to be 'enough' for someone even though you're giving your all love and affection, after many years of keeping all toxic and broken bonds around I've realised that it's okay to give, it's okay to love and it's okay to make someone your top most priority but it's not okay to expect the same amount of love and attention back. everyone can't be you, every one can't be a giver like you're, some people just intend to receive either it be love,.attention or respect.

It's okay to care and love 🌺 but it's not okay to change.