Putting yourself first on your priorty list is the utmost level of maturity. You don't owe everyone an explaination.

Putting yourself first on your priorty list is the utmost level of maturity.

You don't owe everyone an explaination.

The more you explain yourself to others the more they let you down. Imagine someone is showing you an enraged behaviour cuz you were not in a good state to be available for them. Are we gonna get upset with someone who is not feeling well? Sounds ridiculous? Right? 

Making everyone happy is cool but you are not allowed to go out of the way to satisfy them. You are not allowed to demolish your mental peace. Super high standards regarding everything are awful. Labelling insecurity as possessiveness or care is toxic. Don't indulge yourself in this toxicity.

Once you reach "I am not responsible to make everyone happy" kinda level your life becomes much more serene. 

Take a chill pill dude you are not everyone's cup of tea!✨