Everyone has their own life to worry about; everybody is busy

Everyone has their own life to worry about; everybody is busy. At the end of the day, no one has the time or energy to figure anyone else out. If it really matters to you that someone understands you, simply communicate and make it easy for them to do so. Quit playing games and beating around the bush. Say what you mean and mean what you say. And remember that it's not necessary that everyone understands and agrees with you all the time.