دونوں کو آ سکیں نہ نبھانی محبتیں

دونوں کو آ سکیں نہ نبھانی محبتیں 

اب پڑ رہی ہیں ہم کو بھلانی محبتیں

کن کن رفاقتوں کے دیئے واسطے مگر 

اس کو نہ یاد آئیں پرانی محبتیں

گزری رتوں کے زخم ہی اب تک بھرے نہیں

گزری رتوں کے زخم ہی اب تک بھرے نہیں

پھر اور کیا کسی سے بڑھانی محبتیں

یا دل کی حالتوں کا بیاں سب کے سامنے

یا اپنے آپ سے بھی چھپانی محبتیں

میرے دکھ سے واقف ہیں نہ میرا نام ونسب جانتے ھیں

میرے دکھ سے واقف ہیں نہ میرا نام ونسب جانتے ھیں

لوگ بس مجھ کو میری شاعری کے سبب جانتے ھیں ..

تُو میرے واسطے سکھ چین ،میرے واسطے تُو

تُو میرے واسطے سکھ چین ،میرے واسطے تُو

الف مد آ رے الف میم، خدا خیر کرے

عین ، شین، قاف سے پالا ہے میرا جب سے پڑا

کچھ نہیں کاف الف میم، خدا خیر کرے

مجھ کو ڈر ہے کہ محبت میں ہو نہ جاؤں کہیں

مجھ کو ڈر ہے کہ محبت میں ہو نہ جاؤں کہیں

نون الف کاف الف میم ، خدا خیر کرے

عشق کی راہ گزر میں نظر آتے ہیں مجھے

ہر طرف دال الف میم ، خدا خیر کرے

A Lie Is Always Caught and Punished…

A Lie Is Always Caught and Punished…
A Truth is always Forgiven and Admired…

People nowadays love to break trust , They don’t care about other’s feelings. I am not talking about love and relationships , I am talking about friendship , Best friendship etc etc..

They don’t know about the pain of the one they loved once. all they care about themselves. selfish people are really not that bad but people with double face are really bad. they treat our feelings like shit, they never cared they just shows it they were with us because they know it will help their status and standard . they never deserved us , their lies were big and small but both hurts us so badly , as we are now aware of the truth the bitter truth of their reality , their real face  , what they really are.

Well that’s life , life is about the pain which is caused by others how you handle that pain and how you survive.

A little poem which explains my life:

When I got enough confidence,
the stage was gone.

When I was sure of losing,
I won.

When I needed people the most,
They left me.

When I learned to dry my tears,
I found a shoulder to cry on.

And

When I mastered the skill of hating,
somebody started loving me..

This is LIFE!!

Never play with the feelings of others because you may win the game but you will surely lose the person…
Once You Lose Someone, It’s never Exactly the Same Person Who Comes Back…
Trust and Respect, So hard to gain, so Easy to Lose. . .

You know what the worst part is that they don’t feel guilty at all . The word ” Munafik ” is what we use for these type of people , It means the one who is so bad that he’ll never be forgive by God. We did so much for them so much , we wasted all the time on them they never deserved us.

They just deserve those who treat them like shit, who use them . they don’t deserve us they don’t deserve our love , they don’t deserve our care , they don’t deserve our company.

My heart is broken and it’s not my fault
Goes down every time no reason to laugh
I put my trust trough of you
If only I knew the result I would not to do

Actually it’s so unbelievable
But I suppose it undeniable

My love was not fake ,
The person I loved was fake!

My love was not fake ,
The person I loved was fake!

If you can’t value friendship ,if you like using people , Trust me your doom is near .

Maybe the one you hurt forgive you but God will punish you for your sins. Well that’s going to happen afterlife but as well you will encounter the fruit of your sin here in this world. You don’t know what you lose , you just lost a real best friend who was always their for you who loves you more then you love yourself. Well time will make you realize but when you will realize what you lost remember one thing you are never getting that person back in your life.

The only thing i want to ask is why ? why the hell u lie? why you betrayed me? did you get any type of satisfaction from it? You will regret till the end of your life as soon as you realize what u lost.

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Hating Or Loving Life?

Raise your hand if your life is going as planned.

Anyone?

If I’ve learned anything from having depression, writing this blog, it’s that things don’t go as planned. Life is screwed up! It’s unpredictable for all of us.

I think half of our suffering comes from our expectations that things were supposed to be better than this. And when things are pretty shitty, we just don’t know what to do, because it feels wrong and bad to complain.

Fuck that. I mean, seriously, complaining is allowed. Suffering is allowed. Every feeling you are feeling right now is allowed.

I am not happy today. I’m in a lot of pain and I feel grouchy. I hate my life today. In a few hours I’ll probably love my life and then go back to hating it and then go back to loving it.

I don’t want to hide my feelings. When we hide our feelings we hide our existence and when we hide our existence we aren’t living. And we all deserve to live.

Give yourself permission. Stop beating yourself up for being unhappy. Scream and yell and swear and stomp around. It’s okay!

The more we let ourselves feel, the faster we can process our feelings and move to a more comfortable and happier place. Nothing is stagnant. Change is coming. Remember what Toni Morrison says: “If you surrender to the wind, you can ride it.”

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The Art Of Living With Depression: A Short Story With Pictures

Depression- ( A Short story from Glamorous Girl-)

We all face depression in many stages of our life which make us feel weak we tried to hide it, by faking a smile alone we feel like we should be dead , but outside for world we have a fake smile which we wear every morning before leaving our home-

pretending to be happy , showing that you are fine that’s how you carry yourselves Probably because you are ashamed of showing your feelings, you are scared that they will know about your weakness ,you are scared of their response . you think that’s what make us strong.

But NO…!!

that’s something which is making you more weak 😦 and miserable :/ , as you start thinking that you are alone noone can understand you :/

he one who makes everyone love is the one living with the most sorrows. yes you did that often making other happy by your silly jokes so that they can think you are the most happiest among them.

How long ? How long will you hide it ?

one day someone from them will find out , about your mental sickness , about your fake smile. about how you fake that smile while you are crying from inside 😥

Everyone has a breaking point where they just broke into pieces.

But that’s OK . You know why? because there is always someone out there who will listen to you, who will hear your screams, who can see your tears and who is willing to wipe them away.

Being expressive is also a solution most of the time it’s others because of them we engage with depression for dealing with this type of depression we should just express our feelings and let it go. well human has a really valuable source of  communication which is language, but we don’t use it in the right way basically my point is being expressive to other will not help that much it will just heal your sorrow for some time but expressing your feelings to the right person, the one who is the reason of your depression will always help . it will result in a good way maybe their reaction gives you the answer to all your questions or maybe it will end your depression forever-

Their are people who understands exactly how you feel , they always wanted to help you but you never show yourself.  Be bold , bold enough to admit  , bold enough to face ,bold enough to trust them and listen to them.

They will tell you how precious you are , they will hold your hand tight enough so that you will never feel alone.

You are strong- Strong enough to stay happy , strong enough to look at the world from a positive angle , strong enough to forget your past and live with joy in your present.

Yes you are STRONG- 

The Depressed But Glamorous Girl-

Dark Confessions-

”You are the reason of all our troubles,We are the unfortunate people on the earth to have a daughter like you’; It was better if I had no one rather to have a sister like you’’.

” you are good for nothing , you don’t know the real meaning of friendship; you have always been a useless friend “

” you disappointed us”

These lines get stuck in your head and you are like pretending that you don’t care. That’s what most of the people do everyday. there are two kind of people one who  can express their feelings and can cry loudly and other like me which love to pretend that they are happy always willing to carry themselves with a smile 🙂 but cries alot when left alone 😥 they know how to shine perfectly in front of everyone that’s what makes them glamorous LOL. 

But today i want to tell u that people who are expressive tends to be more happy in future and can overcome depression easily.

let me discuss about what is depression,

‘TIRED’’

”TIRED OF HOPING”

”TIRED OF COPING”

”TIRED OF LIVING”

”TIRED OF TRYING”

”I AM DONE”

Depression is an intense expression of sadness, hopelessness and loneliness. The reliable studies all around the world give a high spot that teen girls are more easy prey of depression than boys. Depression is not a mood swing, it is a mood disorder. Generally, parents ignore the cranky and peculiar behavior of their daughters and that’s why most of them go unmedicated. But the main question is – Why do they undergo such depression?

CAUSES OF DEPRESSION:-

• HORMONAL CAUSE : Biological or hormonal imbalances are one of the reasons that actuates depression. They play a main role in regulating the mood and behaviour of an individual.

• CHILDHOOD TRAUMA : Disgusting or traumatic events during childhood such as physical or mental abuse cause wounds that never heal. They create a lasting effect on girl’s brain.

• LOSS OF THE LOVED ONES : Loss of a parent or a dearly loved person affects the working of an individual and eventually they fall in the trap of depression.

• PESSIMISM : They are not able to cope up with circumstances. Little failures in their lives make them feel dejected. They think they will never be able to make it. They loose confidence and become hopeless.

• FAMILY CONFLICTS : Not everyone in this world is born in an ideal family. It is an adage that when the gardeners are good, the flowers bloom. A child will learn what you will show to them. Parents blame each other for their failures in life. They are themselves consumed in fighting with each other that they fail to provide love to their daughters.

• NO FREEDOM : Girls are never given any chance to assert their independence. It makes them feel alienated and dejected leading to depression.

• HEARTY BREAK UPS : When girls don’t get love at home, they try to find love in this world of imperfections. They try to find happiness in their friends and when they don’t get the love they want, all they are left with is Despair.

CONSEQUENCES RESULTING TO DEPRESSION-

•  SELF-MUTILATION
•  SUICIDAL THOUGHTS
•   LOSS OF CONFIDENCE
•   INSOMNIA
•   IRRITABILITY OR ANGER
•   LOSS OF INTEREST IN ACTIVITIES
•   CHANGE IN APPETITE

TREATMENT-

The only solution of depression is to smile, to accept the way life is and to make the best out of it. No one in this world comes to your rescue when you need them the most. It is you who have to save yourself. If you don’t trust yourself, how can you expect others to trust you. Being rebellious or gloomy won’t bring out any solution. You just have to wait for the perfect time to fight back. You should stand upright no matter how badly the world knocks you down. Love yourself and listen to your heart. Your churning heart is still beating. Get back in the lost beats. BE BOLD, BE RAVISHING, BE FEARLESS.

Being expressive is also a solution most of the time it’s others because of them we engage with depression for dealing with this type of depression we should just express our feelings and let it go. well human has a really valuable source of  communication which is language, but we don’t use it in the right way basically my point is being expressive to other will not help that much it will just heal your sorrow for some time but expressing your feelings to the right person, the one who is the reason of your depression will always help . it will result in a good way maybe their reaction gives you the answer to all your questions or maybe it will end your depression forever-

I read this text on the internet  that said, “Do caterpillars know that they’re gonna be butterflies or do they just build the cocoon and be like wtf am i doing???”

I love that idea. I mean, it’s cliche to mention butterflies when I’m talking about change, but really, do you ever think about what caterpillars think?

Let’s hope for the best 🙂

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A writer who draws

I began painting when i was just 13, well i watched a ton and i might want to share couple of attributes of an effective artist, one ought to have:

An Awareness of the Audience: An awesome craftsman is very much aware of the group of onlookers of the piece they’re making. He or she keeps the needs and needs of this specific group of onlookers as a top priority when building up a venture.

An Eye for Design: An incredible craftsman has a sharp eye for outline and recognizes what makes for a decent gem.

Inventiveness: An extraordinary craftsman is extremely innovative and dependably has new thoughts for tasks.

Quietude: An awesome craftsman has a feeling of lowliness and is interested in feedback. They comprehend that not everybody will have the same emotions about their work.

Information of Materials: An awesome craftsman is acquainted with a mixture of materials that can go into a task, and knows how to most successfully utilize them to support a piece.

Enthusiasm: An extraordinary craftsman is enthusiastic about their work and practices their craft in light of the fact that they cherish the work and feel a need to make.

Clever Technical Ability: An awesome craftsman is actually sagacious and can utilize PC applications into their work.

Portraying Skills: An awesome craftsman has incredible drawing abilities and can utilize those aptitudes to lay out the rudiments of an up and coming venture, either for their own particular reference or to demonstrate the task to others.

Solid Business Sense: An awesome craftsman has incredible business abilities and can showcase themselves and their work to people in general.

Vision: An awesome craftsman has an in number feeling of vision and can undoubtedly picture the craved final result at the beginning of a task.

Few of my fine art is given beneath 🙂

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Glamorous Without the Guilt

Hey peeps..!

Let me introduce myself  my name is the glamorous girl- well off course my real name is hidden for some time, but   my story is not , as I am going to share my story and experiences ,also some dark confessions 

This blog is about fashion , makeup , fitness , art and few confessions which are going to help you in emotional disorders. Soon I am going to post few articles on these topics , well now u must be thinking how I am able to provide you this information ? Well it’s quite simple all these topics were practised by me in my real life. I am also going to write few experiences of my buddies , my squad and my bestie ❤

Well let me start now , i am simple 20 years old girl who lives in Asia . I am very ambitious and a positive person , i was a very simple and shy personality but in last few years i met the glamorous and talented me LOL  . Soon i came to know about my glamorous part, which was quite interesting . I was studying information technology was a very good and talented student but IT was not my field , so i started my career as a writer by doing online jobs.

I love to do makeup i tried lots of new looks on me and on my friends , you are also going to find few my art work here https://confessionsofaglamorousgirl.blogspot.com/a-writer-who-draws/    which i am going to update time to time , i am also a fitness freak doing aerobics and yoga are kinda my things 😉 & last but not the least i am good observer and thinker i see life from a different angle and here you are gonna see the world from my prospectus which you are going to love :*

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