I'm writing this with tears in my eyes right now

 I'm writing this with tears in my eyes right now

I can't take that anymore 

Since my childhood I've been seeing this heart-wrenching and brutal images of Palestinian children lying dead in their fathers arms and their fathers running helplessly in search of medical aid

It's been disturbing me since that time and I used to wonder why no one can do anything for them. The images used to haunt me back then But I'm soooo grateful and I'm sooo thankful now that I got to see those images at that time.

That my fellows, was my Education And my awareness which is coming out in the form of these helpless and angry tears right now and for the truth that I know..

Now I can educate our younger generation with the sentiment and knowledge that I've been carrying since childhood.

Our children needs to LEARN

Needs to know about the massacre and violence being done in Palestine.

Please take part in it by educating your children about the importance of our sacred places and Islamic history and the harm being done to it. 

#FreePalestine

There comes a point in our lives when we become so fond of a person that even the thought of losing them shakes us up!

 There comes a point in our lives when we become so fond of a person that even the thought of losing them shakes us up! In front of them you have bared your soul out, you need them the most, you love them the most but they don't love you the same way as you love them, that thought of losing you doesn't shake them up because they are only using you for their own benefits. First they make you feel like you mean everything to them and when they are tired of you they start treating you like shit. They keep playing with your feelings, they keep hurting you and when they find someone better than you, they just throw you aside. Then why do you want to hold onto them? Just because of the fear of losing them? Just because you cannot imagine living your life without them?

But dear you don't deserve all those sleepless nights, all those days when you wipe your cheeks after every few seconds, you don't deserve those days when you shut yourself in a room and refuse to start your day because your energy has drained out. You deserve a person who values you, who puts you on a pedestal and tells you that you’re perfect.

What are we really scared of losing if we let go? The maybes? The almosts? The assumptions? The 'what ifs' and what could be? But why do you care when the other person has already given up on you? They may have broken you down to the core, and you can do nothing but hide it, but they did not ruin you. You learned a lot from them, including that you can take a lot more crap than you used to know. So let go of everyone who disturbs your peace. You are valuable, so please stop tolerating such people who are so apathetic towards you. You deserve better than this❤️

Let them pardon and forgive. Do you not love to be forgiven by Allah? And Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful.Al_Quran

 

Let them pardon and forgive. Do you not love to be forgiven by Allah? And Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful.Al_Quran

Allah SWT has intentionally created human beings flawed and imperfect,so that He can test us.We are social animals as we interect and make friends we tend to build certain expectations from them.We want things to go the way we want.As people are different and flawed in their own unique ways,our expectations are bound to be betrayed.Interaction with people can be source of emotional turmoil.It's likely that they will hurt us sooner or later.our response to such reaction are most crucial as It's not what happens to us, but our response to what happens to us that hurts us.

Mostly,when we get hurt we tend to respond by anger and hatred.The problem with these responses are that these are shallow and  backfire.With hatred we give the offender direct access  to our mind and thoughts, which Will haunt us even more.Keeping hatred and grudges in our hearts is like  poisons that we drink and expect others to die.Why punish ourselves for someone else's mistakes?

Forgiveness sets you free and brings peace .As a believer of Islam one must be compassionate enough to forgive no matter how much pain the offender caused. Prophet Muhammad says that have mercy on people so that the one in heavens have mercy on you when meet Him at the day of judgment.There is a golden rule that treat others the way you want them to treat you,but there is also a diamond rule that treat others the way you want Allah to treat you.Forgive others as you expect Allah to forgive you.You say Allah is Ghafoor and expect Him to forgive your every sin you commit for 70 years yet you can't forgive your brother for one mistake,you expect Allah to turn blind eye on all your ill deeds and only see the good deeds yet you look at a person and all you see is a giant gaping flaw only because he hurt you once.Therefore if we want Allah's mercy we have to forgive people,there is no other option.He who demands mercy and shows none himself destroys the bridge that he himself has to pass.

Forgiveness is a Sunnah of our Prophet SAW.we always hear and read the stories of how compassionate He was .For 13 years He was brutally tortured by people of Makkah both emotionally and physically.we read the stories from childhood that how Nabi SAW was tortured.His loved ones including uncle Hazrat Hamza was murdered and his corpse was mutilated.Inspite of all these brutalities that our he faced ,he still showed mercy.After Fatah e Makkah when Muhammad SAW had the power to seek revenge ,He stood in front of people who troubled him in every possible ways,he said O people of Makkah I forgive you for everything you did to me and I have no hard feelings for anyone.Forgivness is beautiful Sunnah ,SAW never kept grudges for anyone no matter what.We call ourselves Aashiq e Rasool yet we are wronged once and keep grudges and hatred in our heart forever.

To be wronged is nothing unless you continue to remember it.

The degree of emotional damage is in direct relation with closeness of a relation.The probability that your best friend will hurt you is way more than a starnger ever will. Forgiveness is easy with memory of good things.It's true that they messed things up but remember the time when they were there for you when you needed someone,they believed in you at times when you didn't believe in yourself.Some may argue that forgiveness is good but you don't understand how much they hurted,the emotional damage is so deep that it's difficult to look at the good things,at these times remember that forgiveness is not about the offender and his offense at first place,it's about you & Allah,you have to forgive no matter what damage they caused because you want to be forgiven.Forgiving does not necessarily means forgetting and continuing to suffer .Sometimes we should withhold our trust  to make sure that they don't hurt us again.the world is imperfect,bad things are bound to happen,people will betray your expectations and hurt you.it's not too hard to tolerate people's flaws by understanding that they tolerate your flaws as well.If any bad thing happens we should deal with it rather than losing all our energy.The secret of healthy relations is that we should focus on the good things and deal with the bad.The willingness to forgive is a sign of spiritual and emotional maturity. It is one of the great virtues to which we all should aspire.Imagine a world filled with people willing both to apologize and to accept an apology. Is there any problem that could not be solved among people who possessed the humility and largeness of spirit and soul to do either or both when needed?Ramadan is a month of compromise and forgiveness Let today be the day you finally release yourself from the imprisonment of past grudges Simplify your life.Let go of the poisonous past and live the abundantly beautiful present.

The equation of life is never linear. It is a

 The equation of life is never linear. It is a rollercoaster; sometimes it takes you to the highest points (Read: happiest, productive, impactful) and someday it goes to the lowest points (Read: stressed, unworthy, negative) but we know both of these days and points in our lives are important. But what about the days when we are stuck in between both the points?

We often talk about numbness, voidness, emptiness and hollowness. The days what we are not trained for, the days which make us feel valueless, which decreases our confidence and competency to zero, despite we, are aware of the fact that in normal days we know that we are capable and competent. These days steal our creativity, our imagination and our trust on ourselves. Thus, we go back in our shelves where not responding to people becomes our shield, not being expressive starts defining us and putting even minor input or energy in anything seems impossible.

Making it more simple:

We stop writing, we stop working on our tasks, we stop focusing on self-love and grooming and we get confuse in naming it either procrastination or doubting on ourselves.

I hope if you are going through this situation, you realise that this "STOP" doesn't define your capabilities. 

یہ ضروری تو نہیں

 یہ ضروری تو نہیں۔۔

میں روز ہی ہر بات بھول جاؤں۔۔۔

میں روز ہی ہر غم میں مسکرادوں ۔۔

یہ ضروری تو نہیں۔۔

جانے تم کب کس موڑ پہ ٹھہر جاو۔۔

اس آس پہ ہر راستے پر کروں انتظار۔۔

یہ ضروری تو نہیں۔۔

اپنے راستوں کو تم میرے قدموں سے آشنا کرادو۔۔۔

 صرف تمہارے چاہنے پر میں اسی منزل کو پاؤں۔۔

یہ ضروری تو نہیں۔

وہ بیزار تھی

لکھنا

وہ بیزار تھی 

یہ بھی لکھنا

اس پر اپنوں کی مہربانیاں بھی تھیں 

لکھنا کوئی چارہ گر کوئی ہمسفر نہیں تھا

لکھنا کے بہت سی بدگمانیاں گھیرے ہوئے تھی اسے

اور خوش فہمی یہ تھی کے کوئی چاہتا ہے اسے

...!

یقین کیجئے خود کو بے مول کرنے سے لوگ آپ کی قدر کبھی نہیں کریں گے

 یقین کیجئے خود کو بے مول کرنے سے لوگ آپ کی قدر کبھی نہیں کریں گے 

وقت کا کیا ہے گزر ہی جاتا ہے 

حالات کا کیا ہے بدل ہی جاتے ہیں 

درد کا کیا ہے انت تو اس کا بھی فنا ہی ہے 

پھر رونا کس بات کا شکوہ کیسا 

کبھی کبھی جب دل بھر آئے تو بس بے ساختہ ہنس دیں 

یقین کیجئے اپنی حالت پر رونے سے ہنس دینا بہتر ہے

جب ہم اپنی کمزوریوں کا مذاق خود اڑانا سیکھ جاتے ہیں 

تو زمانے کو ہنسنے کا موقع ہی نہیں ملتا۔

The words can make you, break you. They can heal your soul. They can damage you forever.

 The words can make you, break you. They can heal your soul. They can damage you forever.

So choose your words wisely. It’s ok to dislike someone, or even dislike someone for no reason. But it’s not ok to disrespect, degrade and humiliate that person.

There is a word in the nineteenth verse of Surah al Kahaf, ‘Walyatalataf’(ولیتلطف) which is in the middle of Quran. And the meaning of this word is ‘To speak softly’. This is the whole summary of Quran. 

When Allah sent Hazrat Moosa(AS) to firoun than He(Allah) said the same thing to speak to him softly, he might agree.

Who might agree? The person who was the most arrogant person on earth. Life would be different if we will understand that speaking softly and kindly is not a sign of weakness but it is all about being humble and kind towards people.

But what we are doing nowadays ? We are wounding people with our harsh words. Always remember that the wounds given by a sword can be healed but nothing can heal a wound given by words.

Your words have the power to hurt, to heal, open minds, open hearts and change the world. Never forget the responsibility you have over the words you speak.

And never respond to rudeness. When people are rude to you, they reveal who they are, not who you are. Don’t take it personally, just be silent. The less you respond to rude, critical and argumentative people, the more peaceful your life will become. Don’t worry if people think you are weak for not responding. Remember, Allah as a Witness of all and He is the most just of judges❤️

Just be kind and speak kind words and Allah will give you the reward for this.

In Quran Allah clearly says

 

In Quran Allah clearly says:

 “ (O Muhammad) It is your duty to deliver the message and reckoning is Ours.”  -Quran

In this verse, Allah forbids Our prophet PBUH from judging and reckoning others’ deeds and acts. If Allah says this to our Prophet PBUH, then who are we to Judge anyone? 

But As a society we became so judgemental that it has become a norm to judge everyone’s act without having guilt.  

Khaak Urhao  Kay Yeh Woh Daor-E-Sitam Hai Logo

Sab Ko Sab Ki Hai Khabar,   Apna Kiya Yaad Nahin

But Islam teaches us different perspective. Everyone is responsible for his own deeds. You aren’t going to answer for someone’s act. So Just sit around and Ignore other deeds. Focus on yourself .  Don’t criticise someone. Don’t judge anyone. You aren’t in his shoes. You dont know what he is going through. Be gentle. Give space to everyone.  If you have someone’s secret, Protect it. Every human has a good nature.  Let them help to show this nature and make this nature to dominate in our society.  Judge only when you are perfect.  And for sure, no body is perfect except Allah.  

Lets Be Human Again. 

A med student trying to spread some positivity. 

             

Eid? Yes Eid! Days when we used to be over excited. Days when our hearts were more pure and clean than our faces

 

Eid? Yes Eid! Days when we used to be over excited. Days when our hearts were more pure and clean than our faces. Days when people’s lives were more precious than money, when crime was understood evil , when there were no religious wars ,  When no racism existed. Surely childhood gave us the best days with rememberable memories. Those scented flowers enriched with pulpy petals got us lost in a world , new to us. Those straight and new hundred rupee notes would add moons and stars to our level of joy. We would be over the moon hearing Latest Eid news. Those cleanest shoes paired with newly sewed cloths made our Eid more magnificent and delightful. With hot summer winds came the joy of cold & tasty ice creams. Although we are too young to realise this but got thrill outta them. 

Today, for a second , think about where we are standing currently. Where money is more precious than lives ? Where crime , murders , rapes are common? No one tries to speak truth and good? Everyone’s afraid of sharpness of others’ tongue? Relations valued for money and filthy needs? Are we ashamed? NOT AT ALL. Not you! We are all in this together. Can you hear children playing in yards peacefully? Can you hear voice of justice? But yes you can hear poor yelling. You can hear cries of people to whom their own people went cruel. You can hear people fighting In the name of religion. You can hear an old watchman begging for his life. Yes you can hear them all, but all you can do is nothing, because of this low-spirited society. 

We are a total package and a good example of ill and uncivilised society and thats the fucking truth.