The words can make you, break you. They can heal your soul. They can damage you forever.

 The words can make you, break you. They can heal your soul. They can damage you forever.

So choose your words wisely. It’s ok to dislike someone, or even dislike someone for no reason. But it’s not ok to disrespect, degrade and humiliate that person.

There is a word in the nineteenth verse of Surah al Kahaf, ‘Walyatalataf’(ولیتلطف) which is in the middle of Quran. And the meaning of this word is ‘To speak softly’. This is the whole summary of Quran. 

When Allah sent Hazrat Moosa(AS) to firoun than He(Allah) said the same thing to speak to him softly, he might agree.

Who might agree? The person who was the most arrogant person on earth. Life would be different if we will understand that speaking softly and kindly is not a sign of weakness but it is all about being humble and kind towards people.

But what we are doing nowadays ? We are wounding people with our harsh words. Always remember that the wounds given by a sword can be healed but nothing can heal a wound given by words.

Your words have the power to hurt, to heal, open minds, open hearts and change the world. Never forget the responsibility you have over the words you speak.

And never respond to rudeness. When people are rude to you, they reveal who they are, not who you are. Don’t take it personally, just be silent. The less you respond to rude, critical and argumentative people, the more peaceful your life will become. Don’t worry if people think you are weak for not responding. Remember, Allah as a Witness of all and He is the most just of judges❤️

Just be kind and speak kind words and Allah will give you the reward for this.