You may have heard of one-sided love but what about one-sided friendships? Where you just pour all the love and affection to maintain it but the other person won't care even a little about it. Where you think that you are one of the important people in their lives but turns out, you are not even part of their story.
نفرتوں کے تیر کھا کر دوستوں کے شہر میں
ہم نے کس کس کو پکارا یہ کہانی پھر سہی
Where they just use you as a mere tool for their own benefits, where they just talk to you when they need you and you are just the part of their sorrow, not celebrations!!
Like said
مطلب کی یاریاں ہیں اور مقصد کی محبتیں
And when you stop giving them benefits, boom!! it ends, and congratulations, you just traded off your time, kindness and affection for mere attention. Just get rid of these types of people from your life and make your self respect the dearest thing for you.
Friendship is a two-way street, and if only you are putting the effort in Till how long you are gonna water the dead plants?. They don't deserve you. Stop crossing oceans for the people who are not even willing to cross a bridge for you !!!
And just remember
تم تکلف کو بھی اخلاص سمجھتے ہو فرازؔ
دوست ہوتا نہیں ہر ہاتھ ملانے والا
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