Every woman has a past. Some are physically abused. Some have violent parents and a broken family. Some have had pubertal issues. Some have endured sexual abuse as a child from their own family members. Some have messed up love stories. Some were forced to have sex in the name of love. Some were drugged, date raped and photographed. Some have been blackmailed by their ex-boyfriend. Some have menstrual problems. Some have gone through a divorce. Some have an obesity issue. Some have financial droughts. Some have drug or alcohol addiction. Some have gone through unsuccessful suicide attempts.
If you see a woman who has gone through any of these, don’t stab her with her past. Don’t act like a righteous being and try to confront her. Commend her for her courage, for being strong enough to be able wipe her tears, tie her hair up, and masking her sorrows with a divine smile. If she has started walking towards her future by hanging on to that little bit hope, help her out, and do not grab her down.
If she still has not given up on the concept of love, please, do not stab her with her past. Do not slap her with more abuse. Do not treat her like she is nothing to this world. Give her strength and walk beside her. Hold her hands. Try to understand her. Maybe then you’ll understand how sweet that soul is and how strong her hopes are! You will be amazed at how she carries herself after all her energy has been sucked out.
Remember she could be any one. It’s not necessary that she’ll only be the women next door. Someone else’s woman. She may be one of your own, your own sister, your own best friend, your own wife, even may be your own mother. Do not judge her by her past. Understand her feelings, her actions, her smile, her anger, her silence. Gift her peaceful future that she deserves. Hold her hand and protect her against the world, the world that only knows how to judge. Give her trust, something she has always yearned for.
To all those women who have gone through such difficult times, I know it’s hard, I know it’s hard to face the world, but remember, the storm will clear soon, and the sun will shine. If someone is making you feel bad about yourself, delete them from your life. If you feel like you are completely alone, open your eyes and look around you. There are so many people who appreciate and love you just as you are.
You can do everything in your life. You can achieve every goal, every dream. Breathe! if there is an anchor dragging you down, see your way through it. You are the most important person and you mean so much. You are successful and you will be the reason behind every successful man.
God has created you is such a way that you can take do and achieve everything. So just get up from your bed, wipe your tears, smile like a cute baby and fly like a bird. Never stop dreaming and never stop striving to achieve your dreams. Never look back never make any excuses. Just fight for your inner peace, fight for your old smile. Just go for it.
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