Do you remember the time when you were ready to mold yourself in every form for someone who meant a lot to you?

Hey you, do you remember the time when you were ready to mold yourself in every form for someone who meant a lot to you? when was the last time you actually suffocated your skin, personality, weight, happiness, choices and lifestyle and make it look effortless just for the sake of seeking somebody's attention, love or care? Did it hurt when all it ended to you losing a piece of you just so you could allow that person in and give them a comforting and warm place in your life, heart, mind, soul or just in the circle of people who you really like to be with? Well sadly I'm with you when you took a deep sigh after every question as it brought a flashback of all the pieces of you that you had to gather and put them just as they were but unfortunately it hurt to see those cracks within yourself. The point is if there was/is/will be a connection then it should not require you to be a pretending version of someone you're not. I want you to know that the things which make you happy should no way be compromised AND NOWAY A COMPETITIVE RELATION OR FRIENDSHIP WOULD FORCE YOU TO CHANGE THE PARTS THAT ACTUALLY FORM YOU.

You matter and your choices matter so next time if you get this ultimatum to either choose you or them SEE THE RED FLAGS.