People these days need to know the value

People these days need to know the value of the words that have been delivered to someone. Its very easy to tell someone that you love them, that you will stay with them no matter what, that you will be there at their hard times and other things that we keep telling someone just to recieve the love or feel the importance of themselves for sometime. Everyone should know they are not just words that you are giving, its the huge responsibility that youre putting on yourself, its not a joke. When youre giving words to someone you should make sure first that will you be able to fulfill them and are you going to stick no matter what because you dont know what impact it leaves on other person, when you are giving words to someone youre giving them hopes and they start depending on you in many ways, they start planning things with you, they look for you to share their minor problems or even share a good news too. Its okay not to fulfill all of their promises but it is wrong to run from them, please communicate with them, tell them what problem you are facing that youre not able to fulfill them, at times intention are enough too, let them understand you. When you have promised someone that you will stay and leave them all of a sudden, you are not doing good. That another person will be in self doubt, they will doubt about themselves, there will be hundreds of questions that would be in there mind, they will always hesitate in making bonds with new people. And their happiness is longgg gonee, because their happiness depends on one person, they want to share everything with them, they want to appreciate that person when they have achieved something, they want to get appreciated by them only and when these things become impossible thats very heart wrenching for them. So please dont treat your relation as a joke or a temporary thing whether its with your friends, siblings or anyone. Please try to value your words and put efforts on fulfilling them. One more thing never say sorry if you do not have intentions of not doing the mistake again.